Soldier Silhouette - help our heroes

Heroes My Arse

I have noticed a plague sprouting up on social networking sites. You’ll have seen it if you’re on Facebook, G+…

I Want You to Spend a Lot

Bah, humbuggery

You know what I hate most about the empty, souless celebration of boosting flagging mid-winter profit margins on ugly, ill-fitting…

masturbation is not a crime

Go Forth and Fuck Yourself

Everybody does it. Me, you, your parents – even your grandparents did it, but probably with more guilt. That’s right,…

Consequences of gay marriage for the benefit of the Church of England

A Holy Embuggerance

When I wrote about the state of the world yesterday, a part of me wondered if I would be able…

Spider Jerusalem rage

Get Fucked

I have found myself angry at the world of late. So very angry, in that impotent, hopeless way that every…

I Am Not A Naughty Boy

“You’ve been a naughty girl” “I’m such a bad boy” “I want to do terrible things to you” Anyone who’s…

Skirting the Issue by Steven Jarvis

Skirting the Issue

We are moving inexorably towards gender equality, but there are many things still to change before we reach the distant…

Assassins Guild Crest

Character Assassination

He looked across the table at Jeremy, his long, elegant fingers steepled together and pressed to his lips. He inspected…

Fried egg sandwich

Good Morning

As you step lightly down the stairs, you tie your dressing gown loosely around your body. The thick scent of…

Polyamory by Gavin Rutherford

So, What Is This Polyamory Thing?

I think my girlfriend is absolutely amazing. That comes as no surprise to anybody. What does surprise some folks is…

How insecurity saved my relationship

I am absolutely terrified of losing the girlfriend I’ve been with for just shy of 2 years. Why am I,…

Without intersectionality, someone is always left alone

Freaks United

We need more intersectionality. We need to start sticking up for each other. The world is full of political groups…

When Cheating Isn't Wrong - this isn't one of those times

When Cheating Isn’t Wrong

I’m going to go out on a limb here, and disagree with the usual polyamorous ‘party line’ as it were,…

Fetish dress codes

Dress Codes

I shall once again open with a disclaimer; that this is not an attack on people who enjoy fetishwear. This…

Freedom for all

Why I will not fight for your rights

I have an aversion to the idea of rights.  To me, it implies something that is inherent in the world,…

Got ethics? How do we build morality

Building Morality

I recently read this article on moral naturalists the New York Times website, which I was directed to via the…